You always hear to believe in yourself and everything will work out - at least these days, more and more people are teaching and touting this. Am I right? But growing up, I know for me, I was not told that at all. I was told that you have to work hard but you can’t always get what you want. That’s what really sticks out for me.
So it was a long hard road for me to even understand what it meant to believe in myself in any practical sense of the World.
You can be told to believe in yourself - yeah ok, but how?
And I’m gonna break it down for you so its easier than you ever imagined.
Believing in yourself is easy. It is simple.
But the paradox is: It’s not easy. Your mind will fight against it often for months or years to come. This does not mean you are doing it wrong necessarily. It’s just like playing the piano. Even well into a year or two of learning piano, you would still trip over some keys when trying to play great complicated songs….
The good news is that the mind prefers simplicity.
So YES it is easy.
But YES your mind will fight it in the beginning like a wild bucking bronco trying to get free so it can run the old trodden pathways its been down a millon times before.
But I can tell you this: It is worth it!
Because everything begins and ends in your mind.
Every single problem you have ever had is all an attitude you’ve held in your mind.
Think I’m wrong?
Well I’m not. You are lol.
In all seriousness, if you think something is a problem instead of an opportunity for something new, then you will be boxed into a tiny room full of the problem. Like Alice in Wonderland when she grew too big. Her immense growth turned that room into a tiny box.
But when you have the right attitude and mindset (same thing) then you will see that the roof comes right off. You will stand up and look around. You will see an astonishing view of beauty with so many options to think from. But to do so, you MUST believe in yourself. You MUST have faith that good will happen.
So here is the simple formula to believe in yourself:
It all depends on the thoughts that you think.
Deeper in, you need to AGREE with the thoughts that you think (or disagree and deny with the thoughts you don’t want to believe)
All you need to do is to develop and attitude of I CAN AND I WILL. I CAN AND I AM. NOTHING WILL STOP ME NOTHING WILL BEAT ME. I CAN AND I WILL. I CAN AND I AM. I CAN FIGURE THIS OUT. THIS IS HAPPENING. I WILL FIND THE WAY. THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY. I CHOOSE TRUST! I KNOW I CAN. I KNOW I WILL. AND SO I AM! NOW WHAT’S THE NEXT STEP?
And this, my friend, is how it sounds to be inside the head of someone who believes in themself.
It doesn’t matter what your current state is.
You can change it.
It doesn’t matter howw many times you have messed it up before…
You can change it.
It doesn’t matter what shortcomings, weaknesses, sicknesses, fears, doubts or negative patters you have…
YOU CAN CHANGE IT.
And to believe in yourself, begin by telling yourself: I CAN CHANGE IT!
Now do be aware, you will have to use some force. You will have to become pig headed and stubborn in your resolute commitment that you WILL believe in yourself, even if you don’t right now. One day you will.
You need to keep reading books on retraining your mindset, taking classes and workshops from people you trust (like myself).
Your mind is “The Great Trickster” as John Kehoe teaches…
And will trick you at every turn with negative thoughts to bring you down and ‘keep you safe’.
When actually, the negativity brings more negative into your life.
When you try to avoid things happening - you form a mental picture of the bad thing happening.
It’s exactly like setting the GPS in your car - it takes you right to it!
So know that it will be tricky to reprogram your mind - like learning piano while jumping through an obstacle course. Sometimes with electrodes connected to your you know what! hehe….
I say it like this so that you feel assured. There is nothing wrong with you. When it gets tricky and you feel defeated. It’s not the end. You can always get back up and reset anew.
Acknowledge how you feel.
Yep, I feel defeated right now.
But I CAN CHANGE THIS. I WILL CHANGE THIS. I CAN DO IT. I CHOOSE TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF OK!!!!
You can even scream and shout it in frustration to get through to your subconscious.
Of course you don’t stay in that state forever… But anger and frustration is a good place to be for people who feel secretly defeated, disheartened, regretful, resentful and/or in despair.
It shows movement in the right direction!
But instead of getting angry and thinking: I suck. nobody likes me. I will just fail blah blah wah wah wahhhh
Catch yourself when you do think that. Catch it! Crush it. Send waves of Love into your body if you can with a big NOOOOO!
I WILL NOT THINK THIS.
I CAN CHANGE THIS. I WILL CHANGE THIS. NOTHING CAN BEAT ME AND NOTHING WILL STOP ME!!!! Now what is the solution I desire to create? What do I love to do? Lets do that! What do I know in my heart I’m meant to do that makes me feel great? I will do that!
And yeah it can feel like a fight sometimes.
Don’t be fooled by these false light, (sometimes) well meaning teachings telling you to only ever feel positive and good.
Our emotions all have their place and can be used as fuel to launch you forward!
So to wrap up: Believing in yourself is about knowing The Universal Laws - That when you think and act from TRUST you always get more to trust. When you know that God/The Divine/Infinite Intelligence literally lives within YOU and always reflects back to you what you accept as true… When you program this INTO YOUR MIND so it becomes automatic then you will feel SAFE. You will take action. You will deny and eradicate the negative beliefs by saying NO to them!
But it has to be a consistent practice.
And if its not consistent, keep trying to be consistent, no matter how many months or years it takes. Because one day you will get sick of your own bullshit stories and patterns and it will click! Way more than ever before!
So what has been your biggest highlight or takeaway from this message today?
How are you going to go forth believing in yourself more than ever before?
I’m happy to help you smash through limiting beliefs because that is the single most important thing one can do!
Next Steps:
If this has lit a fire under your ass - then you have 2 days left to join me in Recode Yourself With The Universal Laws FOR SUCCESS so you can get trained in the most important thing in life - retraining your mindset!
So you can learn how to journal without creating more problems (like a lot of people are doing).
So you can learn some potent DreamWeaving Visualization exercises from the old school of mental magic thought (back around the 1850 to 1950 were clear and powerful thought teachings - way more clear, concise and effective than the watered down version being taught today)
And I am going to teach you how to use your mind so you get swept up in opportunities and never get stuck in that box of problems again!
This low cost workshop will be a massive game changer for everyone who joins.
Join us live to ask questions and have it personalized to you - or watch the replay so you can pause and take your sweet time with the exercises.
This is the most important workshop I have done to date. So if you are ready to uplevel your thinking and therefore succeed in your business, manifest money, grow your audience, become truly healthy, fit, vibrant, sexy and attract whatever YOUR desires are in life… Then go HERE to join us now
(and if its already gone live you will receive the replay)
Love
Kai xo
